For myself, someone who is allergic to dairy, not intolerant, I always ring the restaurant 2 or 3 days before we are due to visit and try to talk with the chef on duty that night (assuming that the restaurant is not a veggie /vegan restaurant). This not only ensures that the chef understands my allergy (dairy is hidden in so many things such as bread in the form of sodium stearoyl lactate which can be from a dairy or plant source) but also allows me to assist them in alternatives for their usual ingredients. I have found that after the initial 'how dare you' reaction, they are usually quite grateful because we can take one of their veggie recipes and effectively make it vegan and keep a lot of the flavour, which not only allows me to eat out, but allows them to give a vegan option to other customers in the future.Over those 30 years, did you notice an increase in specialized diets, like requests for no fish or gluten free? I do my best to cater to those needs, but I hear only in America there will be an excess of restrictions. I find it very tough to come up with something that is not what i would typically make.
For myself, someone who is allergic to dairy, not intolerant, I always ring the restaurant 2 or 3 days before we are due to visit and try to talk with the chef on duty that night (assuming that the restaurant is not a veggie /vegan restaurant). This not only ensures that the chef understands my allergy (dairy is hidden in so many things such as bread in the form of sodium stearoyl lactate which can be from a dairy or plant source) but also allows me to assist them in alternatives for their usual ingredients. I have found that after the initial 'how dare you' reaction, they are usually quite grateful because we can take one of their veggie recipes and effectively make it vegan and keep a lot of the flavour, which not only allows me to eat out, but allows them to give a vegan option to other customers in the future.