It’s nothing to be ashamed about, we’re all human, and it’s good you recognized that early on.I had never shared that with anyone until then and ya know, he agreed with me. He said that he found himself getting angry with her as well.
Isn't funny that we had the same feelings but never showed it nor discussed it.
My MIL stayed with us for about three weeks when she was in the mild stage of dementia, and even that tried our patience. Some things didn’t bother my but bothered me, and the other way round.
For example, she’d go into her room and unpack all her clothes from the dresser, set them out on the bed, then pack them back, come out, get a drink of water or something, then go back and unpack her clothes from the dresser, then pack them back, and she’d do that 30 times in a day. Drove my wife crazy, but I figured she was occupied, so what’s the harm?
For me, it was trying to reason with her about some things that would get under my skin. She got a standard telemarketer call on her phone, and she somehow interpreted as if she didn’t buy this thing, whatever it was, she was going to be in serious trouble. She’d play me back the voicemail, and as it was playing, she’d wring her hands and start to cry that she didn’t know what she was going to do.
My first reaction was to make light of it, and I said, “Here’s what you’re gonna do,” and I deleted the message, because it was nothing, and she flipped out over that and thought for sure the police and the government and everyone else would be coming after her. I had no patience with that, because you can’t reason with someone who doesn’t share the same reality as you.
My MIL would see ads/commercials on TV and think they were real, especially if the ad was written like a news report, like an obviously bogus news reader saying something like, “This just in…aliens are attacking Earth, after our supplies of delicious Oreo cookies!” - she’d think that was real.She'll tell things she heard on the radio like it happened to her, and doesn't know fact from fiction.