Well, I just experienced one of the lifestyle changes of my new apartment. I got my door bell ringing and opened to find a woman in the hall asking for help for a man who fell off his walker.
First, I have my own disabilities and lifting people off the ground is not something I want to get into. But I had to go see what had happened and render whatever assistance I could.
I found him lying on his back on the outside sidewalk where he and his wife were apparently coming from their car.
I queried him several times to make sure that he was not hurt or injured, whether I should call an ambulance. He insisted that he was not hurt and only needed help off the ground.
His walker had a seat on it and I decided to get him off the ground and into it. His wife was useless and of no help at all, even to position the walker. But I somehow managed to get him up by picking him up from under his arm pits and got him sitting stable in the walker. He was a heavy man and his legs seemed totally useless.
His wife, still useless, would not even help to push him into the building and down to their apartment. I had to do that.
I tried to insist that they get a caregiver there, because I was concerned how he would use the bathroom or even get into bed. When they refused that advice, I excused myself and left. It is not my responsibility to make those decisions for them and I am wondering whether I need to report the whole incident to the apartment manager and get them involved for the good of these people.