First of all you need to decide what type of vegetarian you want to be.
I know this sounds mad, but there are many different definitions and I have met American's who say they are vegetarian and eat white meat and fish... (this may not be exclusively an American issue, so please don't think I am 'picking' on anyone here). Similarly I have had the "so you eat chicken and fish" approach thrown at me a lot over the years!
The definition of a vegetarian is
variations include
and
Then there are the levels of vegetarian... The top one being the most common.
- Lacto-ovo-vegetarian. Eats both dairy products and eggs.
- Lacto-vegetarian. Eats dairy products but not eggs.
- Ovo-vegetarian. Eats eggs but not dairy products.
- Vegan. Does not eat dairy products, eggs, or any other animal product.
Some 'vegetarians' also will stay away from meat, but eat fish (known as pescatarians).
I fall under the ovo-vegetarian category because of my allergy to dairy products, but I would expect you to fall under the lacto-ovo-vegetarian.
For me the transition was immediate, but then I was a stubborn 11 or 12 year old at the time and that made it much easier. I have over the years found little things that I didn't know about at the time, and the best thing to do is not to beat yourself up about it, but use it as a learning tool. When we went off to cycle around the world, I knew that there may be times when eating meat or fish would be my only option (simply because of the countries we were going through) and sure enough I did have to on a number of occasions, but far less than I expected.
What you need to decide is how you want to do it - quickly or slowly.
Some of the pitfalls of going vegetarian include
- believing that you have to substitute meat or fish for something else. Just leave the meat out of the dish you are making, you don't need to substitute it with quorn or tofu or any other meat substitutes. If you must substitute minced beef for something in chili con carne or bolognaise and you like mushrooms, use grated mushrooms - it works really well.
- relying on dairy and heavily on cheese in particular. Both of full of fat and you will soon find yourself putting on weight if you are not careful.
- not eating a wide enough variety of vegetables or eating pre-made supermarket meals
- sandwiches. These do become more of a challenge if you are not going to live off cheese. look at making your own pates if you have time, or consider alternatives such as wraps with humus and salads, mixed beans or even falafels in them (gorgeous chopped up in wraps).
- not finding out enough about what goes into foods - if a label is not saying it is vegetarian but you can't see why the ingredients list is not vegetarian, it is probably something you are missing
But the best piece of advice I can give is to remember it is a learning curve, so don't beat yourself up over 'mistakes!