That’s me as well…I can just about manage four total, counting myself and MrsT, before I start getting annoyed.
There’s also a little bit of a cultural difference - here in my area, chafing dishes of this or that stew would be fine, but there’d usually be an expectation of, “Looks nice…but where’s the real food?” - meaning, where’s the big centerpiece hunk of meat to be carved/sliced? Things in chafing dishes are usually seen as accompaniments to the main attraction, or alternatives to the main attraction…but there still needs to be a main attraction dish.
Informal cookouts, obviously, are a little different, but you still need the burgers, dogs, chicken, etc on the outdoor grill.