I got everything done, except the rice, by Friday lunchtime. Then people started arriving and it was a beer here, a beer there, off to the park with the kids...by 10pm, I was frazzled, so I went to bed and thought "Sod it - it's going to work out tomorrow"
It did. Made the rice as soon as we got back from the baptism and put it in a warm oven. Warmed up the samosas, vadas, sausage rolls; got some help from a couple who'd worked in catering; made some blue cheese sauce for the shortbread and the cheddar twists, thinned out the tamarind sauce for the samosas & vadas. While everyone was noshing that, I was heating up the tikka masala and the aubergines in the oven (wife said it wouldn't work - I know better; it did). Heated up the chickpea curry on the stove and added fresh tomatoes, more garam masala and a whole bunch of cilantro. Made a bowl of raita. Everything was served at the same time, HOT, with tamarind, mango , beetroot chutneys and a spicy hot pickle I made with chiles & garlic. Took 2½ hours, but then I joined the party, which went on well into the night. Sat down with a fat cigar and a single malt and said to myself: "yep, you've still got it in you!"
Photos were taken by one of the guests who has promised to send me the photos tomorrow or Wednesday.
3 couples didn't show up , so there was plenty left over, which we partly consumed on Sunday.
Mission accomplished. I'm knackered and just want to get home to rest.