The General Chat Thread (2026)

It seems I safe a lot of money by having grey hair and not wearing make up :giggle:

Besides that, I don't understand why the suggested tips are so high?
People get paid for their job, isn't it? So tips are only for jobs very well done (beyond normal expectation). Or as it said at one restaurant/pub: tip stands for Truly Impressive Performance
Same here, except I've not gone grey.
 
It seems I safe a lot of money by having grey hair and not wearing make up :giggle:

Besides that, I don't understand why the suggested tips are so high?
People get paid for their job, isn't it? So tips are only for jobs very well done (beyond normal expectation). Or as it said at one restaurant/pub: tip stands for Truly Impressive Performance

I think the tipping in hairdressers etc. is maybe more of a US thing? In the UK the only place we leave tips is in restaurants (and many of those simply add to the bill as an optional payment). Hardly anyone here carries cash these days, so leaving a tip for the waiter or waitress isn't really possible.
 
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I think the tipping in hairdressers etc. is maybe more of a US thing? In the UK the only places we leave tips is in restaurants (and many of those simply add to the bill as an optional payment). Hardly anyone here carries cash these days, so leaving a tip for the waiter or waitress isn't really possible.
Yeah, I assume so
Here and in the Netherlands it's common in restaurants.
Or if someone has been really helpful
 
I think the tipping in hairdressers etc. is maybe more of a US thing?
The standard for hair stylists used to be 10%, with 15% for exceptional service, but after Covid, it kind of went nuts, as there was a push for larger tips to help offset a period of lost income.

Also, hair stylists here, depending on the salon, don’t make a lot in an hourly wage (similar to waitstaff), and depend on tips as part of their income, and some salon owners will also get a cut of their stylists’ tips…that’s where the idea of not tipping the salon owner comes from, but it’s usually applied only when the salon owner has stylists working under them - stylists who are self-employed but don’t employ other stylists are generally tipped (both my stylist and MrsT’s fall into that category).

There are news stories about it here on occasion - the salon industry can be pretty shady and somewhat unregulated. My last four stylists all worked for the same salon owner before each went independent, and the stories they told me afterwards…the owner ran her shop like a mafia kingpin, including doing things like fining the stylists if she didn’t like their outfit that day, or if they were “uncooperative,” unpaid overtime, etc.

Hardly anyone here carries cash these days, so leaving a tip for the waiter or waitress isn't really possible.
Here, a place to add a tip is displayed on the credit card slip when they run your card for payment. I know I’ve seen that in the UK as well, but to the credit of waitstaff there, about 50% of the time, they’d just blow right by it and charge whatever the meal cost.

Here, waitstaff print out the slip and leave it with you and say, “No rush, I’ll grab that when you’re ready,” and you’re meant to fill in the tip, write in the total, then set your card out as a signal that you’re ready to pay. Then they collect your card and charge whatever the total is. Many times, the receipt will even display suggested tip amounts at the bottom, usually for 18%, 20%, and 25%.
 
It seems I safe a lot of money by having grey hair and not wearing make up :giggle:

Besides that, I don't understand why the suggested tips are so high?
People get paid for their job, isn't it? So tips are only for jobs very well done (beyond normal expectation). Or as it said at one restaurant/pub: tip stands for Truly Impressive Performance
It’s an American way. When I go with my husband he doesn’t tip either. My brother lived and went to school in Japan, they didn’t tip back then either. Not sure if they do now.
It’s common to tip 15% here, but lately just about every restaurant I’ve been to suggests minimum 18%, or 20%, 22%.
During COVID, I tipped my favorite restaurant 50%, but now they raise prices, I only go there infrequently, same with everybody else, there’s no more long line anymore. Minimum wage in California is high, so the argument for years was we need to tip to make up for the low wages is gone by the wayside.
I usually go for 18%. But I don’t frequent any place anymore. This is why I love traveling to Europe and IK, no tips are expected, I do give some but the amount they expect in USA is ridiculous.
 
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Tipping in Australia is done for someone doing more than just their job and what they are being paid to do. If I don't get better than expected service for the job being done I wont tip period. If when I pay for a meal (for example) and a screen pops up asking me how much I want to leave as a tip - I skip it and leave nothing. If people want a tip then (in my opinion) they have to earn it - simple as that.
 
Tipping in Australia is done for someone doing more than just their job and what they are being paid to do. If I don't get better than expected service for the job being done I wont tip period. If when I pay for a meal (for example) and a screen pops up asking me how much I want to leave as a tip - I skip it and leave nothing. If people want a tip then (in my opinion) they have to earn it - simple as that.
I fully agree!
 
Funnily enough - perhaps - I have given a bar maid a tip who immediately tried to hand it back to me saying that she hadn't done anything for me. The fact that she was honest enough and wanted to return the tip was enough for me to hand it straight back to her. That, by the way , is the exception NOT the rule.
 
Tipping in Australia is done for someone doing more than just their job and what they are being paid to do. If I don't get better than expected service for the job being done I wont tip period. If when I pay for a meal (for example) and a screen pops up asking me how much I want to leave as a tip - I skip it and leave nothing. If people want a tip then (in my opinion) they have to earn it - simple as that.
They are getting more ridiculous here when it comes to delivery of things, like mattress delivery, I already paid $175 for delivery and yet the delivery guys seem to suggest that I need to tip, like they mentioned this is one of the most expensive mattress in their store, what for? I paid for it, so I know it’s expensive.
People come out for services like repairing my fridge, there’s also a tip line. I gave in because I was so happy to see my fridge working again.
Same with staying at hotels, some people in America will leave some tips. They set precedence I think.
 
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They are getting more ridiculous here when it comes to delivery of things, like mattress delivery, I already paid $175 for delivery and yet the delivery guys seem to suggest that I need to tip, like they mentioned this is one of the most expensive mattress in their store, what for? I paid for it, so I know it’s expensive.
People come out for services like repairing my fridge, there’s also a tip line. I gave in because I was so happy to see my fridge working again.
Same with staying at hotels, some people in America will leave some tips. They set precedent I think.
I find that percentage thing weird as well.
It's the same amount of work for the waiter to bring me a plate of chips as a plate of crayfish....
Or lets say a run of the mill whisky or an 18 year old single malt ....
 
I'll be honest - I don't tip service people like contractors or repair men or delievery people - they charge enough to begin with. The only places I will consider leaving a tip is a resteraunt or a bar. You mentioned hotels - I recall staying in the Ritz Carlton in Montreal many years ago. When the bell hop (the guy who was told to bring my luggage to my room) put his hand out after delivering the luggage I looked at him, smiled, said g'day and shook it.

It is this expectation that a tip will be automatically givcen that really annoys me and as SoCalZone10 said - it is the people who give into that mentality that really do set the precedence and make the expectation stronger.

I remember watching a film at some point when a delivery guy said to the customer - "what about a tip" or something like that - the response was "be good to your mother!" as the customer closed the door. I never forgot that and thought it more than appropriate :)
 
I find that percentage thing weird as well.
It's the same amount of work for the waiter to bring me a plate of chips as a plate of crayfish....
Or lets say a run of the mill whisky or an 18 year old single malt ....
Really if it’s doing the right way, it should be tip on food not tax, but here in USA it’s also over the amount of tax. They find many ways to squeeze out money from you.
 
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