Your cooking - then and now

So when I was about 11years old she enrolled on a French Cookery evening class. She produced some amazing stuff in comparison to the general meat and two (overcooked) veg stuff that was standard fare at the time, but none of it for her family.
Only for showing off at dinner parties.


Being older and allowed to stay up a bit later I sometimes got little bit of a taste or some leftovers and that was the lightbulb moment for me that a bit of effort could produce stuff that tastes amazing.
So I used to go into the cupboard under the stairs where it was quiet and pour over her cookery books drooling at the pictures trying to read weird french words for techniques or ingredients that I had no clue what they were.
It’s around then that I got into cooking.

So I suppose I started with traditional English fare with some slightly more complicated French cookery thrown in. I seem to remember a lot of it was about different sauces and reductions and that fitted in with English food pretty well.
I became obsessed with perfecting techniques for getting the absolute best results. I loved people like Gary Rhodes and anyone who went the extra mile to elevate a dish. The harder it was to do the more I wanted to do it.

That went on for many, many years until what felt like quite a sudden explosion of new ingredients started to become available in our local supermarkets and the whole of the UK (from my POV) or perhaps just my peers embraced ‘foreign foods’ from all over the world. It wasn’t just for London folk or people who lived near big ports anymore!

That led me into Asian cookery which is an area I absolutely adore, an enormous range of tastes and textures that really floats my boat and probably always will.

I also loved looking at the dishes of countries I’d been to or a cuisine that belonged to a nation I’d seen on the television.

Now I simply only want to cook it all and flit about like a person with a very specific form of ADHD that only applies to food! 😂
I knew we were sisters.

My mother did go all out for dinner parties and for holidays, but she had six children to feed and stuck to a budget, so we ate a lot of tuna casserole growing up--to the point where my oldest brother will not touch the stuff and the mere mention of it makes him cringe. I started cooking around the age of 12, but it was pretty simple fare for the most part. I grew up in a coastal community on the panhandle of Florida in the city of Destin, which for many years was nicknamed "the luckiest fishing village of the world", so I went fishing with my dad a lot and learned to clean and cook what I caught. My dad was from SE Texas near the Louisiana border and most of his experience cooking fish was either frying it or making gumbo. But in my 20s I had a couple of boyfriends who were chefs in local restaurants so I learned a lot from them, especially in ways to prepare seafood.

In my 30's I met my husband and moved to Ohio. He is of Italian descent so I learned a lot from his family about how to cook Italian dishes. I also would eat at restaurants and if I found something on the menu I loved, I would try my best to recreate it.

I am still a work in progress!
 
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I knew we were sisters.

My mother did go all out for dinner parties and for holidays, but she had six children to feed and stuck to a budget, so we ate a lot of tuna casserole growing up--to the point where my oldest brother will not touch the stuff and the mere mention of it makes him cringe. I started cooking around the age of 12, but it was pretty simple fare for the most part. I grew up in a coastal community on the panhandle of Florida in the city of Destin, which for many years was nicknamed "the luckiest fishing village of the world", so I went fishing with my dad a lot and learned to clean and cook what I caught. My dad was from SE Texas near the Louisiana border and most of his experience cooking fish was either frying it or making gumbo. But in my 20s I had a couple of boyfriends who were chefs in local restaurants so I learned a lot from them, especially in ways to prepare seafood.

In my 30's I met my husband and moved to Ohio. He is of Italian descent so I learned a lot from his family about how to cook Italian dishes. I also would eat at restaurants and if I found something on the menu I loved, I would try my best to recreate it.

I am still a work in progress!
I am filled with envy on the “luckiest fishing village in the world” !!
I live by the sea and the coast has always been part of my life but they are not fishing ports, not one bit, Bristol is/was a large commercial port and yet no fish!
 
I am filled with envy on the “luckiest fishing village in the world” !!
I live by the sea and the coast has always been part of my life but they are not fishing ports, not one bit, Bristol is/was a large commercial port and yet no fish!
Well it's also one of the most beautiful beaches in Florida, and yes, the sand is really that white (and soft) and the water is generally crystal clear (except after storms or during seaweed season or the dreaded red tide) and a lovely emerald green. And the seafood is off the charts!!! Most of my friends growing up were either Air Force brats like myself or the children of fishermen.

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So are the waters around Bristol just overfished? I guess you need to get oysters from the other coasts?
 
Well it's also one of the most beautiful beaches in Florida, and yes, the sand is really that white (and soft) and the water is generally crystal clear (except after storms or during seaweed season or the dreaded red tide) and a lovely emerald green. And the seafood is off the charts!!! Most of my friends growing up were either Air Force brats like myself or the children of fishermen.

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So are the waters around Bristol just overfished? I guess you need to get oysters from the other coasts?
We've spent some time in Jupiter and Destin. Nice areas, and yes, the seafood we had was great! We had fun catching sailfish offshore of Destin, too!
 
Well it's also one of the most beautiful beaches in Florida, and yes, the sand is really that white (and soft) and the water is generally crystal clear (except after storms or during seaweed season or the dreaded red tide) and a lovely emerald green. And the seafood is off the charts!!! Most of my friends growing up were either Air Force brats like myself or the children of fishermen.

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So are the waters around Bristol just overfished? I guess you need to get oysters from the other coasts?
Bristol has never really been suitable for fishing.
The channels waters are difficult to navigate, it’s actually an estuary with extensive mudflats and churned brown water and one of the highest tidal ranges in the world so lots of variation between deep water and mudflats that make it difficult for boats.
It’s has very strong tides and is where the salt water of the sea and the fresh water meet.
Further in like the Quayside in Bristol is commonly green from the algae so fish from there are muddy flavoured.
 
I started very young. One day I asked my mother, who was cooking at the time, whether one could put anything edible together to make a dish. She laughed and said a shrimp chocolate sundae wouldn't be a good combination. So I asked how to choose ingredients and she taught me the basics. I used to help her regularly and the rest is the rest of my life. I taught my wife to cook in the same way I learned. I still like to eat split bananas with a mayo and nut topping. Sounds awful doesn't it? I have some cashews. Maybe I should have a snack.
 
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