Ah, that's a shame. But you might not have met your DH if that would have happened and your life would be vastly different.
It never even occurred to me in my 20s. I grew up in a household where we ate a lot of frozen pizzas and boxed dinners. My mom worked 2 jobs when I was young and was never home, so she bought a lot of convenience foods. When I was in my mid-20s, I started my own business and was very busy, so I didn't really cook much, but I dated a chef so I picked up some knowledge then, even though I did not help him in the kitchen when he was cooking for me other than cleanup. It wasn't until my 30s that I started getting interested in cooking, and late 40s before I was able to turn out some pretty great food (other than seafood, I always had a knack for that).
So yeah, I missed out on a lot of the basics.