Growing up in Hawaii,
way back when, there weren't many Italian restaurants, we didn't eat much pasta at home and I had no clue how to make a proper plate of pasta.
The first time I ever cooked a "Spaghetti Dinner" for my now husband, I broke the pasta into small bites, put it to boil, started the 'sauce' of browned ground beef and a jar of Prego or Ragu, I forget which one, added more garlic and dried herbs to my liking and served it up on my grandmother's HUGE platter that she gifted me.
My then boyfriend was ready for dinner, we sat down to the table and his younger sister called from Philadelphia, he had to take the call ...
he tries to take a bit of food while taking to his sister, spat it out and exclaimed "This is NOT how you make pasta!"

What the heck did I know!
Today is a
totally different story.
I make my own pasta; I also cook dried and fresh store bought pastas of all shapes - and yes - sometimes Sunday Gravy using Italian Sausages, Meatballs and Pork Ribs - the meats are all scooped out and the sauce, to be served separately and it's like heaven!
I've had to teach myself through reading and research as how to make a proper American-Italian meal - there is a difference between American adapted recipes and the way they cook
IN Italy.
And how much/often do we have pasta?
I'd say at least once a week, sometimes more ... do Asian Noodles count?