Plans for today (2025)

I think maybe I’ve missed something 🤷‍♀️
What’s going on with your sister that she’s not able to sort out her housekeeping?
She’s a hoarder and just had a kidney transplant. One night her doctor called me and said to call the police to come down and break in to her house because she didn’t return his phone call. At near midnight, I called 911 and the police did come, she came out in a stretcher, she almost died of sepsis.

After this incident my brother said she can’t go back home to my mom’s house. So we had to help her. Plus we took away her car after we drove behind her for 30 minutes, she almost died off an accident. So this is why I have to help. I also have to clean up her new house near me, she bought it for 11 years, brand new, and never moved in. But the house is loaded with stuff she bought from Costco.

Right now she’s lucky to be alive, so that’s what we want her to focus on. Eating, drinking water, taking her medicine, something she didn’t do or couldn’t do for the first 3-4 months. The doctors said she had to go into a nursing home or something before my vacation, but they worried she would catch infection from other people. This is why my brother and I had to step in.

The good thing is she has improved, she gained weight, but still have episodes that make her tired easily, she has to rest.
 
She’s a hoarder and just had a kidney transplant. One night her doctor called me and said to call the police to come down and break in to her house because she didn’t return his phone call. At near midnight, I called 911 and the police did come, she came out in a stretcher, she almost died of sepsis.

After this incident my brother said she can’t go back home to my mom’s house. So we had to help her. Plus we took away her car after we drove behind her for 30 minutes, she almost died off an accident. So this is why I have to help. I also have to clean up her new house near me, she bought it for 11 years, brand new, and never moved in. But the house is loaded with stuff she bought from Costco.

Right now she’s lucky to be alive, so that’s what we want her to focus on. Eating, drinking water, taking her medicine, something she didn’t do or couldn’t do for the first 3-4 months. The doctors said she had to go into a nursing home or something before my vacation, but they worried she would catch infection from other people. This is why my brother and I had to step in.

The good thing is she has improved, she gained weight, but still have episodes that make her tired easily, she has to rest.
Wow. Thats hard. Good on you for caring and being there.
 
Wow. Thats hard. Good on you for caring and being there.
I think after today I’m going to give up cleaning both houses. I just texted my brother of my decision. I’m doing all this for free, out of my own volition, but she threw a fuss today, she was hovering around me all day. She said she didn’t want me to throw her stuff. In fact she got upset at my husband and I before, we threw away a truckload of hard liquor.
 
Maybe get a Christmas if I’m not too tired digging out one fruit tree. Today is very light cooking, ramen noodles for the whole family, so my husband and I can focus on sending a few Christmas cards to the UK. We got one yesterday from his college roommate.
 
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