I don't remember ever not helping at mealtimes, even if it was just getting stuff out of the fridge or pantry, probably 8 or 9 when I started doing simple things myself. Around 17, I got interested in baking, sweets and breads, and cake decorating. Made pate a choux swans at 17-1/2. I learned the "fancy" stuff on my own, except the cake decorating. Did take a class for that. Mom was a good cook, but stayed with pretty basic stuff, other than pie pastry, which she was a master at. She also never contemplated baking bread from scratch once she could buy decent at the grocery, though she also never failed to appreciate and eat my homemade breads. I kind of plateaued out from my early to late 20s with school, work, marriage, child, failure of marriage. I did continue to bake and decorate cakes for family and friends, even got paid for a few, during that time. Then, I met Craig and was forced

into starting to really cook again. A few years later, Food Network came along and really started to broaden our food horizons.
I think I'm expanding my skills. We are always trying new dishes and even new cuisines, plus I've gotten pretty good at being able to replicate dishes I've tasted without recipes, and even cook dishes I've only seen and heard described on TV. Plus, I'm always trying new techniques or ingredients that pique my interest.
We'll be making tamales today, our third time. The first was years and years ago and they were okay, but not something to do again. We decided to try again within the last year or so after watching somebody make them. Much, much better that time. They are a lot of work, but freeze well and make a lot so are worth it.