Hide you CD's and remote. Don't allow him to bully you.I LOVE Christmas music. I like music in general (not big on tv so music is my "escape"). Back in the day, my ex would literally break ALL of my Christmas music CDs on December 26th. He didn't understand that I liked listening to it even if it wasn't the season. So, every year I would have to reorder my favorites. After we separated, he would come in the house (for whatever reason) and turn off Pandora the whole time he was there. Now, I only see him about 3 times/year (when he lets me see the kids) so I only have to endure his control of my remote control when that happens.