Since we’re talking about aged parents…
A couple of weeks ago, I talked to my mom (phone). One of the things that really seemed to bother her was walking her dog. She’s 84, has a bad knee, and can be a little unsteady, and her dog is pretty energetic.
We talked back and forth, talked about Winter and snow and ice coming, and how she really had no business walking the dog any longer and agreed that she needed a dog walker.
I promised to mention it to my brother, as he handles all her money, and when I did, he ok’d it and asked me to find someone.
I spent a good part of the day researching it, settled on a service/app called Rover, set up an account, set up a profile for the dog, searched dog walkers in her area, found one that looked promising, texted back and forth with her about a dozen times, just getting some extra information, and thought I’d make one last check with my brother, to get my mom’s credit card info for the service.
Called him, got that, and I asked about any upcoming doc appointments for my mom, so I could schedule around that, and he said that
another brother had taken over managing Mom’s calendar, so I had to call him for that.
Called him, and he said he’d talked to Mom the day before, and she’d decided she didn’t want a dog walker after all.
Called brother number 1 back, he said he’d just talked to her
today and she was looking forward to having the dog walker start.
That’s the problem with my mom - she tells one thing to one person, something else to the next person, and gets everyone crossed up and confused, and then says she doesn’t understand why everybody “is making such a fuss about things.”
Here’s the thing, though: if I get her a dog walker (which I’m planning on going through with), she’ll tell me how wonderful that is, and she’ll tell everyone else how terrible it is, and if I
don’t get her a dog walker, she’ll complain every time anyone calls that she can’t walk the dog any more and we were supposed to get her a dog walker, but didn’t.
I’d love to blame it on old age, but she’s always been like that. No matter what, she’ll complain about it in the end.