I answered whether he had a psychatrist in one of the posts you quoted
' he has a whole team working with him yet they leave every 6 months or so too because they get frustrated with him. ' No psychiatrist has stuck out longer than 6 months, and if we get any willing to do it they're usually bottom of the barrel folk who do this because they have no other choice.
Patients like my stepson are not a popular kind, because there's no succes or profit to be had from them. Our mental health care has been in a crisis for the past 12 years, and it's only going to get worse because our government doesn't care and people keep voting on parties who don't care about these people either. Our prime minister said 'well if you're mentally ill you should just think differently'. That is the voice of the nation.
Here is an article in English about it:
Mental healthcare: the bigger the problem, the longer the waiting list
The approach to mental healthcare waiting lists is so diffuse that patients with serious psychological problems, often caused by multiple disorders, cannot be helped.
This article is dated, and speaks about an average of 4 months waiting time. Since the COVID crisis, a year is more common even for the most serious cases like my stepson. If they get helped at all.
Yes, both children are my husband's sons. And we agree the younger one needs protection from the older one. Unfortunately, my husband's ex thinks differently about that and still visits his brother with him weekly. We've noticed a decline in the youngest's wellbeing since she started doing that. But my husband's ex is also mentally ill, so she can't be reasoned with either. Both boys are mature though, the youngest is 19 and the oldest 21.
The criteria to be declared insane is to be a danger to yourself and your environment, you have to be found to be in such a state by a psychiatrist and health care workers, and reviewed by a judge. Right now his file is being examined by a judge. If he is found to be insane, he will be legally represented by a curator and guardian.
We have chosen for the curator to not be a family member, because the care for my stepson has caused both parents (and me) to have a burnout and we're simply no longer able to care for him. The curator will be a trusted caregiver who is the only one who stuck with my stepson for the past 10 years.